Regime #9 stopped

The numbness in my fingers and hands made typing difficult. Please do appreciate this entry. Thank-you.

Ixempra is not an easy drug to handle, as could be seen by the side effects I was put through. I blamed myself for not taking my Chinese herbal medicine in time to manage the sluggish intestines, which I did so well in cycles 2 and 3. The bone ache and numbness were not easy too.

Anyway, more drama followed after my last entry. The bone ache and numbness hit new high and caused me much misery. Shuai Ge as usual troubled Dr See who prescribed me medications to ease the pain and to give me at least a good night's rest. Before that, upon LX's suggestion I sought help from a fellow churchie who specialises in pain management. He only called two days after Dr See's prescription.

I then had a tussel with antibiotics (to tackle the inflammed large intestines). This was after the CT scan done, which showed part of the large intestines being enlarged. Thank God for the gentle nurse at the CT scan department, the scan went smoothly. The two courses of antibiotics were those after my recent seeing "red" episode. I stopped after two doses of them as they did not agree with my stomach. Again after the third dose on day two, I was nauseating to no end. Sleep was denied. Shuai Ge couldn't stand by to see me in pain and again disturbed Dr See's clinic. I felt so silly when after her prescription of anti-nauseating pills and proper management of taking the antibiotics, my stomach was in much agreeable terms with the antibiotics.

I told Shuai Ge today would be the last day of the antibiotics course (but didn't tell him my plan to throw away two tablets left). But alas! He actually counted the tablets and said it was Tuesday morning. Aiyah!

The bleeding issue was not resolved totally. Dr See had asked Dr R Yeo the radiation oncologist to do a brachytherapy on me. I have been scheduled to be radiated tomorrow. Ah! My first suana!

Though the CT scan report wasn't out, Dr See had suggested to stop chemotherapy altogether and to rest for two to three months. Meantime, she suggested I try TCM. That night after seeing her, Shuai Ge asked me if I knew what all that meant. I didn't. I don't think my doctors have given up on me yet, just that I have very limited options as of now.

You probably can't recognise me now, being reduced to mere bones. LX had been my main contact point in church with so many asking for visitations. She helped me decline all. As for me, I would ask for help in going to the hospital should the need arises. As LX said, LZ and her are on standby all the time.

I have done enough crying over the last few weeks. I really hope it will not be repeated.

Till the next entry!


P.S. Much thanks to my chio-est one for helping me out with adding gadgets on this blog.

aunt agony

The lack of updates is an indication of how things are: bad. Over the past few weeks, I have turned into aunt agony, not one who dishes out advice for the troubled, but one who is in anguish.


The biopsy report showed spread of disease, unknown sources till further scan. I had sometimes played the scenario in my mind whereby the doctor would give me the ultimate bad news. Would I be devastated and cry my heart out? Or just simply take in the news? I don't know.


Anyway, the bleeding did stop after Dr See's medication. I carried on with cycle 4 on 23rd July. I was still feeling alright till Sunday (26th), everything just turned painfully tormenting after that. For three whole days, I spent every waking second in agony and misery. Never had I felt so much pain and in such great intensity as those days. I couldn't eat, move, sleep or do anything. The pain was so excruciating that I broke down, several times. Painkillers didn't help. I just wanted to die as the agony got unbearable. I sent out prayer-sms requests.


The bone ache abated somewhat an hour after that sms was sent. However, another pain hit me. My stomach began to feel bloated. Over the next few hours, the skin threatened to split over. The discomfort got to a point that I had thoughts of ending it all again. Why, Lord, why wouldn't it stop?


The one who is also suffering with me is "Shuai Ge". He couldn't watch me suffer and not do anything. By Thursday morning (30th), I was in Dr See's clinic. I had a drip, an x-ray, a booster for white blood count and an enema. There was some relief but not the end of my suffering.


The bone ache returned at a moderate level, but the numbness intensified. My fingers and arms, knees, toes and feet are stiff and perpetually in pain. Imagine I couldn't even text on the handphone or press the buttons on the house phone. Even simple bending of the fingers hurt.


I have no lack of concerned friends, help and offers of help, and words of encouragement/hugs. It is very heart-warming. All these pain and suffering have taken a toll on me physically and my fighting spirit. I have reflected my intention not to continue with this regime as there is no quality of life.


I realise this is a really bad year for me. I was transferring blog entries from my previous blog and reading through some of them. My entries this year weren't like before. All I can say is that the side effects have significantly affected my mental and emotional state and thus it is reflected through my entries. I need a break and a return to "normal" days, so as to be recharged and kick the unwelcomed, overstaying guest. When will that be?

Seeing "red"

As in the previous entry, the pain level hit its peak on Friday night. I took the strong painkiller and tried to get some sleep. I managed to catch some winks and thought the bone ache somewhat abated. The numbness was (and still is) a nuisance.

On Saturday late night, I felt nauseating and was trying to vomit (I ate very little and there wasn't anything in the stomach). Wasn't too sure if I had used too much force, I later found blood stains down the unmentionable. I told "Shuai Ge" about it and he was very concerned. I wasn't bleeding profusely or in amounts that warranted panic, but it was frightening to see fresh blood, not just stains. The "bleeding" continued each time I was in that "nauseating" mode.

On Monday morning, I called up NCC to page for my doctor and made an appointment to see Dr See as well. Dr Ng did not respond to my call yet when I went to see Dr See. I was very grateful and thankful to Dr See who did most of the legwork for us. Even SSN Tan helped. In the end, I managed to see Dr Wong, my surgical oncologist five years ago. She performed a short biospy on a suspicious nodule found. I will see her on Friday to review the result.

It hit me later that it could be a serious condition. If the loss of blood was significant, I might have needed a transfusion (which was why there was this tube of my blood for 1-to-1 comparison). If the bleeding did not stop, and if it came from an existing tumour, perhaps a small area radiation might be needed. Then at one point when the nurse tried to take my blood pressure, the machine could not take my readings. When she finally measured it manually, it was 90/60. Scary!

The pain down below superceded the numbness. I couldn't walk without help and had to lean on "Shuai Ge" all the way home.

What a Monday! But I'm glad I have angels around me to help me through. See, told you I'm a blessed patient. ^_^

Pain, pain go away

That's what I have been feeling for the past nine days. Whatever position I take, lying down, sitting up, standing, walking... the pain sticks to me like a Siamese twin. The bone ache (despite medication) and numbness are torturing me, and depriving me of sleep and rest. I have been whining too, non-stop. I walk like an old lady without a walking stick, hunchbacked. Sounds depressing? Afraid it's the situation as of now.


But I think I will survive, like always.

cycle 2

I'm still finding my way around in this platform, so please bear with me.

Finished my second cycle almost three weeks ago. Given the experience of the first cycle, I think I coped rather well with the second one. The good news was that I responded to this new drug Ixempra and my marker came down significantly to 56. I couldn't contain my delight and shared with Dr Ng my feelings. I thought he was trying to pare my happiness when he said, "We always look at the trend." Hmmm.....


I still had the same side effects for the first ten days, intensity lessening as the days go by. I will be going for cycle 3 this Thursday. Not looking forward to it.

new regime, the ninth

This entry was taken from my old blogsite.

new regime, day 13

[2 Jun 2009, 01:38:14 PM]

I started on the new regime with the new single drug, Ixempra. As Dr Wong said, two of the side effects were body ache and numbness in fingers and feet. After 2 months of oral regime, I had to return to intravenous treatment. It was a good thing that nurse KOH aka teddy bear did the plug for me. However, the anti-allergy drug given totally knocked me out, both during and after drip. It left me feeling groggy till the following day.


The body ache started to kick in on the second day and intensified on the third day. The body ache was like being boxed by someone and left me feeling painful (especially the joints) all over. I couldn't sit up, lie down or even walk, every posture was incredibly uncomfortable. Very frustrating. I had to take the strong painkiller prescribed by Dr Wong. It only provided slight relief, even though the medicine could last 12 hours. Then I had this itch/rash on the upper half of my body. I scratched myself raw on the chest and on the shoulders. The other side effect I had was constipation. I was feeling bloated and the intestines were sluggish. I rang the walk-in clinic for an appointment since I was going to SGH to see my liver specialist that Tuesday. Ser was really thoughtful and gave me a lift to the clinic after our usual breakfast and marketing.


At the clinic I was told that I might have to wait for at least two hours. I let the nurse know of my other appointment at SGH. As I was pressing for time, another doctor just took a look at me outside the clinic and prescribed medications. While waiting at the cashier (no consultation fees payable since I wasn't examined in the clinic), this couple kept smiling and waving at me. Turned out that the lady patient recognised me from the cancer programme. O.O!


It was good to see my liver specialist again. She also caught me on the repeat showing of the programme. She asked, "Oh, you didn't use your Chinese name?" I smiled and said, "No lah, I asked them to use my Christian name." My previous liver specialist is back in Singapore, but I decided to stick to Dr Ng. The consultation card had several names of the liver specialists I had seen after the first one left for private practice. I felt very comfortable with Dr Ng and she really showed care for her patients. She saw my weight loss and asked if I needed to see a nutritionist. She encouraged and reminded me to eat well since I am still on treatment.


By the way, Dr Wong too had left NCC for private practice. In my humble opinion, I felt that NCC has been losing good staff over the years. The queue for Dr Wong's clinic was incredibly long. There was once we waited for two and a half hours. There was a patient then who said Dr Wong is a "big shot" doctor and yet refused to see another doctor when the nurse suggested. The patient claimed that she saw another doctor and wasn't happy/satisfied. She and her spouse certainly showed their impatience and dissatisfaction for the long wait.


I'm always grateful and thankful to the doctors who have/had taken care of me. Sometime ago, my ex-classmate called to say she saw me on tv and shared that she has been diagnosed with br.east cancer. She went to NCC initially but changed to another hospital after she found the doctor not quite whom she wanted. That was another reminder that my doctors "rock"! My Chinese physician is just as wonderful. Blessed me!


It's been a month since I last posted. I'm still on this battle against cancer. Sometimes it feels easier to give up, especially when the side effects are in full swing and the fighting seems futile. There are more "down" times but within those times, there exists "up" moments, albeit short ones. These short moments sometimes provide me impetus to continue. I very much prefer to be left alone although I must say that my friends are always there for me. Don't worry, if I ever need anything from my friends, I won't hesitate to ask. Promise!


Oh, the hair has started to drop since Sunday and I'm going for the shave this evening. I have a new wig to play with, courtesy of Lyn. She also bought me the last one five years ago. I'm just wondering if I'm brave enough to just wear bandanas. Yati, the lab technician, suggested wearing a hat with jeans. She said I'm petite and should look quite "stylo" in that. Haha!